Wednesday, 19 March 2014

Releasing / Healing Relationship Residue

Relationships are our hardest lessons we come to learn on this Earth. One thing that people don't always realize is that there is something I'd like to call Relationship Residue and if an issue is not properly dealt with in a relationship, it doesn't go away by itself if we walk away from the relationship. Patterns and experiences will repeat in relationship after relationship, until we get it. Until we've dealt with it. Until we have TRULY forgiven and let go.

So what is Relationship Residue? There is a contract between two souls to come together to help one another learn certain lessons. If we don't learn how to handle or master the lesson at hand and leave that partner, hide/suppress or deny that the issue exist then we carry it into a new relationship. And they get the brunt of it. Paying for the sins of past partners, which is totally unfair on that relationship and individual.

In the past I had to learn how to heal properly after each relationship experience that left me battered and bruised. Some was easier than others. It was enough for me to experience certain things once and never wanted to repeat it again. So it was important for me to feel it, heal it, release it, and get to forgiving self and others. For my aim, my dream is to have a happy, healthy, loving, mutually caring and supporting relationship, and I didn't want to taint it with past experiences.

Dealing with clients, I see that not everyone has this philosophy and they think they can 'move on' without healing, or without dealing with the matter, or without releasing and forgiving, and when the issue pops up in a new relationship, as it always does, then there is zero tolerance and the emotions runs high.

We are all mirrors for one another. Reflecting back what's actually deep down inside. Some run when they see the reflection. But sooner or later you have to stop and deal with it. For the future is no place to carry the past.

So how do we know if it is our issue or the next person's issue? Well that's easy. Our body tell tales. If it is our issue, there is a chemical reaction in our body. We become hot under the collar, and can feel the effect directly in our body. If it is the other person's issue, we remain cool calm and collected and can observe their reaction.

So I urge you to deal with old patterns, heal them, forgive them, cut ties and move on in love. This is a prefect time for it.  We are going through a cleansing period to raise our vibrations. Release your old baggage and let it go, for it no longer serves you and keeps you from a happy and fulfilled, loved and joyous life.

I can help you if you struggling with letting it go. Come see me when you are ready.

Love and light
Fiona (SilverButterfly ~ Reflecting unto humanity)
082 788 1413